How to Find a Tantra Partner?

Tantra is an excellent way to bring two spiritual bodies together for an enlightening physical, emotional and spiritual experience.  Tantra uses not only sexuality but also the senses and emotion in order to reach heightened levels of connection with your partner.  Tantra is not just about sex.  It is about finding a way to communicate with your partner on a different level. The security and comfort that you feel with your partner in bed will strengthen your regular relationship outside of the bedroom.  So, now that your interest is sparked, how are you going to find a tantra partner?

There are certain characteristics that you should feel with a person such as being able to laugh, strong feelings of long and wanting, a spiritual connection and feel at one with yourself.  You may be currently in a relationship and feel this way.  If so then you may have already found a tantric partner.  If not, then you should begin to tantra date.  Look for someone who you have automatic chemistry with.  Your opening line does not have to be “Do you want to be my tantric partner?”  When you feel that spiritual connection then you have found your tantra partner.  Once you have found this person, then you can begin to talk about Tantra practice.

There are three main pillars in tantra; breathing, movement, meditation and practice.  When you begin to speak to your partner about being open to tantra, reveal these pillars to demonstrate that tantra sex goes way beyond intercourse.  You can start off slow with exercises that you feel more comfortable with until you reach higher states of learning with include different types of erotic massage, kissing, hugging and caressing.

Once you find your tantric partner you will reach new and exciting heights in your relationship on a physical, emotional and spiritual level.